Jamie DeMarco, MS, CPC, ACC
Dating & Relationship Coach | Bestselling Author
Jamie DeMarco, MS, CPC, ACC
Dating & Relationship Coach | Bestselling Author
I'm all about empowering women to stand up for what they want and need in relationships, live on their own terms, and be treated the way they deserve in their love life.
I know how frustrating it can be to go on tons of dates but still never find "the one". To feel alone and depressed and constantly wonder, "Is something wrong with me?"
I also know that it's possible to have everything you've ever wanted in a relationship (HELLO super sexy, intelligent, stable husband!) - but that sadly, most women will never make the changes to get it.
On the surface, I had everything I wanted when I graduated from college. I was a Regional Director at the top of my company and was finally(!) living with my boyfriend of five years. I was breaking records at my job and living roommate free with a guy I loved.
But on the inside, I was shriveling. I was in a career with no advancement and a relationship that (if I was honest with myself) was unhealthy. I was wildly successful and putting on a happy face, but I was being mistreated, underappreciated and undervalued.
I also knew that I had no clue how to make any of those things happen (or even how to take the first step!) but I made a choice.
Even though I was terrified and had NO idea where I would end up, I left my job and ended my relationship. Eek!
I was lonely and desperately wanted to find Mr. Right but had no clue where he was. I was sick of trying to meet guys at crowded bars and going on mediocre dates. I was sick of being the third wheel.
One day, I listed out all of the qualities I wanted in a man (literally), and realized that this "ideal" man really had his life together. Not to mention, he was tall, dark, and super handsome...and he had a bad boy look but was actually a caring romantic. Oh, and he was assertive and stands up for himself but treats me like a princess. Sheesh. Things seemed a little bleak, but I had an epiphany.
Of course! I couldn't expect Mr. Perfect to magically rescue me and solve all of my problems when I was jobless, broke, and had no clue who I was or what I wanted to do in life.
Three years later, I was a changed woman. I invested in myself and learned who I truly was. I knew what I wanted and needed in a relationship and knew what I didn't want and what I definitely did not need.
I completely changed the way I dated and therefore, how guys treated me. I became a pro at navigating the online dating scene and opened my inbox to dozens of emails daily. Although I had lots of suitors and plenty of opportunities to fall into a decent relationship, I held out.
Good thing I did.
Or I should say, I found him...by accidentally stealing his seat at a bar.
On our first date, we were so engrossed in conversation with each other we literally forgot to eat dinner.
By week two, I’d concluded that Matt had checked every single box on my dream man list.
By month three, I was at his place more often than mine.
And on 5/15/15,
on a beautiful rooftop overlooking the ocean
in Riviera Maya, Mexico.
Most people will tell you that it’s not possible and to be realistic.
You can have your Prince Charming.
You can have your fairytale ending (and wedding!).
You CAN have it all.
Learn more about how I help women like you have the love life they've always dreamed of and become incredibly irresistible in the process.
Raised in a military family, Matt’s high values of loyalty, service, and dedication have served him extremely well in his professional and personal life. With over twenty years of experience in the highly coveted role of Federal Sales Engineering, Matt has a unique blend of technical knowledge and charisma that makes him the ultimate catch in the database world.
Matt married the love of his life on 5.15.15 and has since been thoroughly enjoying his new found passion of traveling the world with his beautiful wife, Jamie. (She may have had some influence in their excessive amount of travel, but now he loves it – he swears!)
Matt checks EVERY box of the/my dream man list. Matt is: Confident. Super Successful. Stable. Secure. Hilarious. Strong. Healthy. Ripped. Compassionate. Kind. Extremely intelligent. Light-hearted. Tall. Dedicated. Loyal. Determined. Manly. SEXY. Romantic. Independent. Authentic. Adaptable. Absolutely incredible.
He can be stubborn and sometimes only focus on one thing (let’s be real, most men do this…), but he fiercely stands up for himself, his family, friends and his beliefs wholeheartedly.
Matt is genuine, extroverted, and the life of the party, but is also the most generous and friendly person I've ever met.
He is extremely dedicated to his career, is a gym and fitness guru, and loves his video games and comic books, but also makes it a priority to spend quality time with me, take me out on date nights multiple nights a week, and plan incredible adventures for the two of us.
Matt makes me feel so special and loved. He’s my rock, my partner, my other half. We completely complement each other; we make the other better, and grow in all aspects of our lives every day.
Jamie, aka “Your real life Fairy Godmother”, is a Dating & Relationship Coach, Bestselling Author, and founder of Find Your Fairytale - an international company that helps women confidently attract their dream partners, have their ideal relationships, and live happily ever after in real life.
A master manifestor, Jamie’s called in some incredible things over the past decade, including her Prince Charming/amazing husband, Matt, her dream wedding & honeymoon, and her current dream fairytale life adventure - of living in Gdansk, Poland and traveling all around Europe!
Growing up as a top-ranked competitive gymnast, Jamie demonstrated the drive and determination to be successful even as a child. After a career ending knee injury, Jamie continued to help others become successful in the sport by spending seven years as a sought after gymnastics coach. Her desire to be the best combined with her natural leadership skills served her well once she graduated college, as she landed a Regional Sales Director position at 21 years old.
Jamie has since become a top performer, manager, and leader in the sales, fitness, and education industries, and has excelled in positions such as Area Sales Director, Sales Advisor, and Sr. Admissions Counselor. Although Jamie quickly proved herself as a top performer and leader in her previous roles, each time she reached the top of a company, she felt a familiar tug in her heart. Though she didn't know what, she knew she was meant for something more. Jamie wanted passion in her life and career, she wanted to uniquely make an impact in the world and change thousands of women’s lives for the better.
After she left her last 9-5 job to pursue her dreams, Jamie has since completed a Master’s Degree in Academic Advising, become a Certified Professional Coach (CPC) through The Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC), earned an Associate Certified Coach (ACC) credential through the International Coach Federation (ICF), and obtained an Energy Leadership Master Practitioner Certification (ELI-MP).
She met her Prince Charming by accidentally stealing his seat in 2012, had her dream wedding in May 2015, and is now living a fairytale life of great love and epic travel adventures with her amazing husband, Matt.
Jamie now changes the world on a grander scale with her company Find Your Fairytale. Her mission is to help women become the confident, radiant queens they were always meant to be so they can start living the life and love story of their dreams. She’s all about empowering women to stand up for what they want and need in relationships, live on their own terms, and to be treated the way they deserve in their love life.
Jamie’s greatest desire is to help women find their fairytale and have their happily ever after. Just like she did...
When she’s not helping clients find love or jet setting around the world, Jamie enjoys indulging in a glass of Sauvignon Blanc while dissecting dating decisions on The Bachelor, binge reading self-development and dystopian future audio books, “talking” with her princess-diva cat, Lily, and fully embracing her Piscean-nature by floating in the ocean and/or her bathtub.
Jamie can’t wait to meet you, inspire you to be your most amazing self, and help you have the epic love story you’ve always deserved.