Jamie DeMarco, CEO of Find Your Fairytale, named Most Empowering Dating & Relationship Coach 2024 by LuxLife Magazine
Hey Beautiful!
If Online Dating has you feeling frustrated, defeated, let down, grossed out, or ALL of the above...check out this new 2 min. video!
I give you 3 simple tricks to make dating fun, effortless & a great night (for YOU) guaranteed. 💃
Enjoy Gorgeous!
xo Jamie
The hilarious and cringeworthy story of how Jamie simultaneously manifested and filtered out her husband, Matt.
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She manifested her Dream Guy. He was dying to meet her. He was messaging her, reaching out to her...but was promptly filtered out. For MONTHS. Whoops!
Luckily, there’s a happy ending! 9 months later Jamie stole Matt's seat at a bar and the rest was history.
Watch now to hear all the juicy details!
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Meet Your Coach:
Jamie DeMarco is a Dating & Relationship Coach, Matchmaker, and Bestselling Author. With over a decade of experience in helping others find (and keep!) their ideal partners, Jamie’s mission is to empower women to confidently love themselves, attract their Mr. Rights, and live happily ever after.
Happy New Year from Poland! 🇵🇱
*Obvi, the above pic is not in Poland. Keep reading to find out where we've been these past fews weeks!
How are you doing, love?
If you're anything like me - you're probably recovering from a whirlwind end-of-2021 and trying to figure out what your 2022 is going to be all about!
I've been a bit quiet around here lately - and that's because Matt and I made the crazy (awesome, scary, intense & thrilling) decision to relocate to Gdansk, Poland for a year! We moved here in October and have been sight-seeing, traveling, settling in and getting adjusted to Europe/Polish life ever since.
We've luckily had the opportunity to relocate through Matt's work, so fortunately we've had more help than most...but HOLY CRAP do we have a whole new respect for anything that is brave enough to move to another country! 🤯
It's been challenging in lots of ways for sure (think - finding new friends, doctors, vets, navigating a completely different healthcare system, figuring out how to grocery shop, order (& receive) deliveries, get bank accounts, tax numbers, Polish phones, etc.) ALL IN ANOTHER LANGUAGE. 😅😅😅
Are we totally bat sh*t crazy for doing this?!
Perhaps... lol.
Wawel Castle, Krakow Poland
The Pros
So why'd we do it?
Although Matt may take a little more convincing (ha!), the benefits of living in Europe, being an EU resident and traveling around Europe for a year are what makes it all worth it!
Firstly, the main reason we wanted to move here was to experience some good ol' European work-life balance. Most European countries legally entitle workers to 26-30 mandatory vacation days per year - and that doesn't even include the double or triple amount of National Holidays (aka "Bank Holidays”) that most EU countries also observe. (The U.K. even has "Stress Leave" where if your doctor determines you're too stressed out - you're required to stay home and enjoy life (and get paid full time by your employer) until you're in a better place to work again...) I KNOW....
We're planning on a solid 5-6 weeks of vacation minimum in 2022. 😉
Oh, and over extended work days aren't a thing here AT ALL. As one of Matt's colleagues explained to me at a social work event, *if* you go into the office for your work day in Poland, the first hour is for coffee and socializing, then you work for maybe 2-3 hours, then you have your hour lunch, then another hour of coffee and socializing, then another hour of a few quick wrap up emails before leaving before 4 so you beat traffic. The life, right?!
When I explained to Polish, German and Russian friends at a recent Internations Event (a great way to make new friends in foreign countries, fyi!) that many Americans/American Companies frequently work 12 hour days, or brag about the amount of hours they worked that week like it's a badge of honor - they all looked at me like I was freaking nuts and speaking about an alien way of life!
Needless to say, the Europeans work to LIVE.
NOT live to work...
(Emily in Paris on Netflix is a GREAT example in the American - European Work/Life differences, btw! And one of my fave shows EVER.)
Being totally immersed in this culture has been extremely refreshing, relaxing and beneficial for us - even if it does take some extra work and a few (or a lot...lol) of mistakes along the way.
The Best Part
THE TRAVEL, OF COURSE!!!!!!
We're talking - castles, beaches, culture, delicious food, and fairytale-esque villages galore!
Speaking of which - we just got back from an island hopping stint in the Canary and Portuguese Islands!
We visited Tenerife in the Canaries for Christmas, and Funchal, Madeira for New Years Eve. These islands are located off the west coast of Africa, and we're super warm and temperate for the holiday season. (We had to get a break from the Poland cold, after all!)
Follow me on Instagram for more videos of the INSANE NYE Fireworks show in Funchal!
And to watch all of our upcoming travel adventures, of course. :) ✈️
Christmas at The Ritz, Tenerife, Canary Islands
Madeira Island, Portugal
My Secret for Manifesting ALL of This...
So…what’s my secret to manifesting alllll of this amazingness?!
Do you want to finally have YOUR deepest desires too?
Here’s the first thing you MUST do…
Get INTENTIONAL about what you desire.
Then, take aligned action towards it.
That's it.
Well - there's more to it than that, but that is 1000% where you must always start before you can manifest anything you want or desire.
A romantic relationship? A successful career? To live in Europe?
I manifested all of those things - but I've also had help along the way!
I’ve been learning about and practicing manifestation for YEARS - and lucky for you, I’ve culminated ALL the tools, tricks, tips and successful manifestation practices I’ve learned into one amazing guidebook!
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Well, Matt and I are off to our next adventure this week!
Any guesses which island we’re headed to this time?!
Leave me a comment with your best guess!
Keep chasing your dreams, gorgeous!
“A comfort zone will never be the path to fulfilling your true destiny.”
Hey Beautiful,
This is a DEEP quote. Amiright?!
The more and more I tune into my inner guide; my thoughts, feelings and what I feel called to do - the more good things tend to come my way.
Things just tend to “work out magically”. ✨
But it’s not magic.
We all ALREADY have our purpose inside us! 💕
And your intuition, your soul, and “yeses” (things that you’re a HECK YES! to) are guiding you along the way.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. (I don’t!)
You just have to follow your heart & trust your intuition.
Once you feel called to do something - take ONE step towards making that desire a reality.
Then, repeat.
That’s it.
Eventually; those little steps turn into amazing opportunities, coincidences, or miracles - and before you know it, you’ll be pinching yourself as you live out your wildest dreams.
Take my past 17 days in paradise & adding International Retreat Host to my resume, for example:
Pretty epic, right?!
And this was ALL born out of a random shower thought (or dream…I’m not sure which lol) where I experienced one of those crazy light bulb, epiphany moments out of nowhere.
I sat bolt upright and said “OMG! I want to host my clients & meet them in person at my fairytale wedding resort/luxury all-inclusive paradise in Mexico!
And voila! The VIP Love Life Retreat was born, created and executed (all within 2 months). 🤯 💃 💁♀️
YOUR DESIRES ARE MEANT FOR YOU!
You just have to stop ignoring them. 😉
You got this, love!
To your dreams,
Xx Jamie
P.S. Have you snagged your autographed copy of my book, She is Magic, Always, yet?! It's all about how I manifested my incredible husband Matt, and our modern-day fairytale happily ever after. 💗
I’m only selling autographed copies for a few more weeks! (As these babies will not be making the trip to live in Poland with me, ha!)
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Hey gorgeous!
I am SO excited to share my latest juicy Podcast with you!
I was honored to be featured on Mindie Barnett’s Podcast, The Race for The Ring! We chatted about finding love, creating irresistible dating profiles, and how to Attract YOUR perfect person to you - quickly!
🎧 Listen Here: Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, iHeartRadio for more!
The Race for The Ring - Episode 73
Attract The Mr. Rights & Repel The Mr. Wrongs
WITH JAMIE DEMARCO
This week on Race for the Ring, Mindie is joined by Dating and Relationship Coach, #1 Best Selling Author and Founder of Find Your Fairytale, Jamie DeMarco.
In this episode, Mindie and Jamie discuss the mistakes and mishaps of crafting your dating profile to attract Mr.Rights. Tune in as Jamie uncovers the secret to attracting, meeting, and keeping high-quality men. This eye-opening episode will motivate you to upgrade your generic dating profile to an authentic profile that stands out. Listen closely as they reveal the magic secret recipe to securing the right man for yourself!
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Hey love,
I see so many women repeating the same (unintentional!) self-sabotaging patterns in their love life, DAILY.
It’s normal of course, because we’ve been hurt before - or have “learned” that we shouldn’t act a certain way or say a specific thing because it produced a negative reaction from someone we were dating or in a relationship with.
Women especially tend to love and care unconditionally - only to find themselves taken advantage of, strung along, or in that awful “is this casual or is this going somewhere?” trap.
And it makes total sense that we’d question what we should say or do differently in our next relationship - especially if we didn’t get the reaction or outcome we were looking for previously.
The thing is - if you’ve been single for a while, or haven’t found the right person for you, or just can’t seem to get past the casual phase of dating - you probably don’t realize it, but you may be limiting yourself - or worse, accidentally rappelling the high quality men that would have been a good match for you.
If you’re telling yourself that…
“I have to “fix” myself before I can have a relationship”
and doing nothing to work on your loving relationship with yourself…
YOU’LL CONTINUE TO REPEL HIGH QUALITY MEN.
Or that...
“There’s no good guys left…”
yet you live your life on constant repeat (work, vent with girlfriends, visit the same places, do the same things)…
YOU WON’T MEET NEW, GOOD MEN.
Or if…
“All the people I like don’t like me back, and I’m not interested in the people that like me...”
so you limit yourself - don’t give people chances, expand your circle, or take new opportunities…
YOU’LL KEEP ATTRACTING MEN THAT AREN’T RIGHT FOR YOU.
And listen, babe...it’s not your fault you’re stuck in one (or many) or these vicious self-sabotaging love circles.
Our past experiences, social media and society norms have conditioned us to feel that way.
But there’s good news!
You CAN:
💗 Attract High Quality Men (with ease!)
💗 Unconditionally and unabashedly love yourself (and still attract your potential ideal matches)
💗 Become a High Quality Man Magnet IRL (without dating apps)
💗 Design and live a life you love - and attract a partner who fits in perfectly & loves you EXACTLY as you are
💗 Meet The One & Have your dream relationship (in less than a year!)
You just have to DECIDE to take action.
You didn’t get that great job or college degree by putting zero effort into it, right?
No! You studied, you learned, you practiced - and eventually you became that awesome person you are today.
Dating & your love life is NO DIFFERENT!
With a few simple tweaks and mindset shifts - you can go from sabotaging your love life - to attracting high-quality, emotionally available, relationship-ready MEN - who are ready and waiting to sweep the right girl (aka YOU) off her feet. 🤴🏻
Do yourself a favor, and hear this…👇
It’s not “just a matter of time” until you find the right guy.
Quality men surround you at all times…
it's a matter of how much of your life you’re willing to let pass by while you’re not ready for THE RIGHT GUY.
🤯
Truly, if you haven’t done the inner work & truly believe you are deserving of great love - your dream man could walk by you tomorrow and I can almost guarantee you...he WILL pass you by. (So freaking sad, right?!)
You have to be ready for Mr. Right when he shows up, ladies!
Plus…You only have one life to live.
How many more years (or decades) are you willing to wait around “hoping something will just work out”? (Spoiler alert - it won’t.)
Life is now. Yes, it’s scary to make changes and take risks - but what do you have to lose?
Keep going with the status quo...keep doing what you’ve been doing...and you’ll probably get more of the same result. How’s that currently working out for you?
And hey, if you’re cool with your current life and relationship situation - then by all means - ignore me.
But if you’re ready to break through what’s holding your back from the relationship of your dreams FOR GOOD…
If you’re ready to BECOME The One - so you can therefore ATTRACT The One…
(fyi - you can NOT skip this step and expect to have your happily ever after…)
I’ve taken hundreds of women from single and miserable - to creating a life they love; manifesting, attracting and dating high quality men (with fun and ease!); and ultimately having the relationship of their dreams with a partner that adores them. 👏 💃 👩❤️💋👨
You got this, gorgeous! The love life of your dreams is headed your way RIGHT. NOW.
Just make sure you’re ready for it. ;)
Xo Jamie
P.S. - Curious as to how I can help with your specific love life dilemma or man problem? Book a Love Breakthrough Session HERE - and we’ll figure out what’s holding you back from attracting The One and having your dream relationship in the next year.
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And yes, this is possible! But you have to act fast - I can only offer this super high touch service to a few special ladies. If you’re considering this awesome opportunity to get all your burning love, life & man questions answered WHILE living your best life in a tropical paradise (and having a ridiculously fun time with me + your new friends!) book a VIP Retreat Q&A Call HERE and we’ll see if you’re a good fit! 💗
The hilarious and cringeworthy story of how Jamie simultaneously manifested and filtered out her husband, Matt.
__________
She manifested her Dream Guy. He was dying to meet her. He was messaging her, reaching out to her...but was promptly filtered out. For MONTHS. Whoops!
Luckily, there’s a happy ending! 9 months later Jamie stole Matt's seat at a bar and the rest was history.
Watch now to hear all the juicy details!
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Meet Your Author:
Jamie DeMarco is a Dating & Relationship Coach, Matchmaker, and Bestselling Author. With over a decade of experience in helping others find (and keep!) their ideal partners, Jamie’s mission is to empower women to confidently love themselves, attract their Mr. Rights, and live happily ever after.
Hey gorgeous!
Have you ever wondered why you tend to meet the same type of (not so great) men? Or why it seems like you have to choose to either: 1) Be Single or 2) Lower your standards to be in a relationship?
Girl, I know the feeling and it SUCKS. Dating can get so discouraging - and even downright deflating! So it’s no wonder that most women get frustrated over the low quality men that seem to keep creeping into your life. Like, HELLO! Where are all the top-notch keepers?!? 🤦🏼♀️
Do you agree, love? ...sigh.
Even though it seems like finding a high-quality, relationship-ready man (that you’re actually attracted to) is impossible...I can tell you. It’s NOT.
After decades of coaching women on how to attract their dream guy, and manifesting & marrying the most amazing hunk in the world (sorry ladies, Matt’s still taken 😉), I not only know that it IS possible to have your dream man, your ideal relationship & your happily ever after - I also know that you can manifest epic love QUICKLY with the right tools and strategies.
In today’s training, I dive into all the juicy details of the few simple steps you can take - TODAY - to Manifest Love & Happiness.
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Can’t wait to hear what you think beautiful,
Hey Lovely!
DID YOU KNOW?
You (yes, YOU) are capable of achieving/attracting/manifesting ANYTHING you desire.
And I do mean, anything!
Sure, working hard and striving towards goals is helpful (and needed!), but there's a quickerway to possess what you've only dreamt about until this point.
There's only one disclaimer...it's SCARY.
But, if you can decide that getting what you truly want out of life, love, business, etc. is WORTH feeling a bit of nerves and fear, then please, read on.
✨THE POWER OF BIG DREAMS & BIG INTENTIONS✨
It was July 20th, 2020.
I was in the middle of my weekly journaling sesh, and putting the final touches on my latest “goals list”. I knew I was in the midst of change - and that upcoming, unknown transitions were inevitable.
Being extremely Type A, I wrote out my goals in all aspects of my life over the next few months. From physical goals, to mental health and business dreams - I had my life planned out!
As I was about to close my journal, I felt like I was missing something. There was one goal, one big dream, that if I was being honest, was so big and scary that I didn’t even want to speak it out loud, let alone write it down…
Choosing to face the fear and do what my gut was telling me to do anyways, I took a breath, and wrote that big, scary goal down:
“Write a book & become a published author.”
Then, I promptly slammed my journal shut and pretended that I did not just send that daunting intention out to the universe.
A funny thing happens when you get clear on your dreams, write them down and speak them aloud, though...
Because sure enough, barely four months later, that seemingly far reaching, big goal has ALREADY COME TRUE. 🤯
December 1st, 2020 will always be a special day in my heart, as it’s when I officially become a #1 Internationally Bestselling PUBLISHED AUTHOR. 🎉 😭 🥂 📖 ✍🏻
#dreamsdocometrue #reachforthestars⭐️
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The Road to Mr. Right
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Love and happiness,
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Dear Lovely,
Ah, the world of online dating. It's true that dating total strangers can be disastrous and depressing, but believe it or not, some incredible relationships and marriages have come from online dating sites.
Even though there are high-quality men ready to meet amazing women (like you!) on those sites, many women make big mistakes that leave them missing out on potential relationships.
And I would know. Because - I was one of those women.
I actually FILTERED OUT MY HUSBAND.
Little did I know that my (now) sexy, smart, and secure husband crafted a beautiful email to me on OkCupid - only to hit send (hey, it's scary to be vulnerable and reach out to people we're attracted to - even for men!) and receive a flashing red error message that read:
"You are outside of this user's filter requirements.
Message blocked from user."
WHAT?!
I know, I know. It's a bit mortifying now (and kind of funny), but I just couldn't believe it when he told me this story! Luckily, we met in person a few months later when I accidentally stole his seat at a bar (phew!) - but could you imagine?
What if I NEVER met my husband because of my limiting beliefs about what I thought I wanted at the time?
We've all heard stories of people finding their match and exclaiming, "He was totally unexpected!", or "He was different than my usual type", or "Thank goodness I gave him a shot because at first I wasn't even interested, and now we're getting married!" (Okay, okay, getting carried away here, but you know what I mean.)
How many great men have YOU missed out on because you decided to only date one type of guy? Or have you too filtered out someone amazing because of height or age or zodiac sign? (Maybe that last one's just me...)
I'm not saying that you should settle for any random guy or stay in a bad relationship, butmany women make the classic mistake of getting wrapped up in a "perfect list" and missing out on a great man in the process. I know I almost did.
I frequently advise women to have a list of desired qualities in a man, but to be open to the unexpected.
You never know how your prince charming will show up in your life - so you need to make sure you're not unintentionally blocking him from sweeping you off your feet. Or bar stool... ;)
Speaking of blocking dream guys, have you finished your 5 Ways to Be Irresistible Guidebook yet?
If so, that's amazing! You've probably discovered a thing or two that's been holding you back from attracting high-quality men, and are (hopefully!) implementing the secrets to becoming an irresistible man-magnet as we speak. Yeah, girl! :)
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Lots of love,
Jamie
Hi Beauty!
When I was single, I stumbled across a quote that forever changed my outlook on myself and relationships. To this day, I still LOVE this saying and live by it wholeheartedly.
The genius Dr. Seuss writes,
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.
I’ll add on my own follow up quote, too:
If you like me for who I am – GREAT! If you don’t like me for who I am – EVEN BETTER! That means less time I’ll waste on someone who doesn’t like the real me, and more time I get to spend with people that love and accept me exactly as I am.
A little bold and sassy right?! Feel free to steal it. ;)
When it comes to dating new guys and meeting new people, many women feel the need to put on a ‘front’ or act like a different, “better” version of themselves in order for people to like them.
That’s totally understandable (I’ve even done it before!), but ultimately, it’s going to hurt your chances of having happy, loving, successful relationships.
Of course it’s scary to show people the real you, but what happens if you don’t?
If you convince a hot veterinarian that you love all things furry (to bond over something common and increase conversation), but you’re actually allergic to anything with four legs…that’ll probably end terribly. Either he’ll find out that you lied (unattractive), or he’ll assume that you’re not secure enough to show him who you really are (which is a deal-breaker for high-quality men).
Sure, maybe Mr. Vet doesn’t want anything to do with you after he learns about your aversion to animals, but if he doesn’t want you as you are, then WHY would you want to be with HIM anyways?
And if you didn’t come clean with him for weeks (or even months), look how long you just wasted on a man that wasn’t your Mr. Right in the first place!
Being who you are and saying what you feel doesn’t necessarily mean that everyone will like you and all the boys will flock to you. Actually, there will definitely be people who don’t like you, don’t resonate with you, or aren’t attracted to you. But that’s okay!
If you’re truly being yourself, and you find the people that do like you for exactly who you are, that’s when relationship magic happens.
It’s incredibly freeing to be yourself, not worry about ‘saying or doing the wrong thing’, and be able to express whatever you feel in relationships.
And it is possible to do this. You just have to pull up your big girl pants, stop worrying so much about what other people will think, and rock your authentic self.
Give it a try. I promise, ladies – you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Want even more proof that being yourself (even if you love Harry Potter and The Bachelorette) is insanely attractive to men? Check out this week’s video HERE!
Not only do you get to meet Matt (my prince charming), you’ll also hear his tips for landing a high quality guy and attracting great men.
You’re welcome. ;)
Cheers to being YOU, gorgeous!
xx Jamie
Hi Beautiful!
This week, I’m excited to share a practical, super easy way to know if you’re in the right (or wrong) relationship with a guy. Or, if you're not in a relationship yet, I spill a fast, spot-on way to know if he's even worth pursuing!
Quickly access the new video here.
I hear a lot of women complain that their “relationships with men are so hard” or that “dating this one guy is a ton work” or “I’m putting so much time and effort into this man.”
The thing is – if you feel like your relationship is hard, or if it seems like a lot of work (especially if it’s still in the beginning stages), you’re probably in the wrong relationship.
When a woman feels like this, it usually means that she’s putting more into the relationship than she’s getting in return, or, that she’s lowering her standards and expectations for this man. (See last weeks video on why your standards are so important.) And, neither of those things will lead into you landing a great man or having an extraordinary relationship.
This seems like a no brainer, but here’s the secret:
Relationships are easy.
Or I should say: GOOD, happy, healthy relationships are easy.
Relationships (especially at the beginning) should be fun! They should be exciting, mainly effortless, and both parties should be equally eager to spend time with each other.
Of course relationships do take some effort, but if things aren’t easy at the beginning, what do you think will happen down the road when life’s natural hardships arise?
Think about your relationship with your best friend. You probably call and text each other the same amount, want to make plans together often and communicating is as easy as breathing.
If you had a friend that didn’t call you back, didn’t make plans with you or just strung you along; you’d probably stop bothering with them and put your effort into other friendships, right?!
But when men do that very same thing to women, women tend to make excuses for the man’s behavior rather than accept the fact that she may be getting rejected, strung along, or that (gasp!) he’s just not that into her.
“Oh, he’s just busy with work right now. Once he finishes this project, he’ll call me more.” Or, “his family’s in town so I’ll just wait for him to make time for me afterwards.” Sound familiar?
And then we sit around and wait and worry and waste all of this time on a man who may or may not even ask us out when all is said and done.
How pathetic! (Don't worry, I've done it too...)
A REAL man (that’s interested in you) WILL make time to see you. He WILL call you back and make plans to impress you.
Trust me on this.
If a man isn’t putting in the same amount of effort as you, if you feel like the relationship is “work” or think that he will eventually change and act the way you want him to…
(I'll help you out here...)
Kick. Him. To. The. Curb.
There ARE men out there that will treat you the way you want to be treated and deserve to be treated from the very beginning of your relationship.
But if you waste your time and energy on men that aren’t giving you what you want, or make excuses when guys you’re really into are “too busy” to text/call/see you – you could very well let your Mr. Right pass you by.
So do yourself a favor. If you know deep down that a man isn’t putting in the same amount of effort as you are, or that you’re still not being treated like you truly want to be – don’t wait around for things to change. (They won’t.)
Move onto the next one!
Sure, if he asks to see you again sometime in the future (and you’re cool with meeting up with him) then go for it. But don’t dedicate all of your time and thoughts to a man who isn’t dedicating all of this time and thoughts to you.
You’re happily ever after is out there, gorgeous. You just need to tell yourself you’re worthy of it.
Lots of love,
Jamie
P.S. - Don't forget to check out the latest video!
Hi Lovely!
If you're like most of my clients (and like most women), you probably want to find a good man that cherishes you, fights for you, and commits to you wholeheartedly.
You'd love to be with someone that plans special dates for you, surprises you (in a good way...), and constantly tries to impress you and win you over.
And having a loving, loyal, communicative relationship where you're both head over heels for each other would just be the icing on the cake.
I mean, that sounds amazing right?!
All of that IS possible to have (trust me, I have it!), but what most women don't realize is that it's actually THE WOMAN'S job to make sure that she gets everything she wants out of a relationship.
I'll say that again:
It's YOUR job to make sure that you get everything you want out a relationship (not his!).
YOU need to set the standards of what you expect, what you want, what you will and won't tolerate and exactly how you'd like to be treated from the beginning of a relationship. And, you need to keep setting your expectations throughout.
Ladies, men want to make you happy. They want to please you. The top quality guys will put in the effort to woo you, impress you, and win you over, but you need to tell them what that looks like first!
As much as we'd like to think so, men aren't mind readers. They can't give us what we want, hope for, or know how we expect them to treat us until we tell them.
Getting and keeping the relationship of your dreams starts with setting high(er) standards. And in my latest video, I tell you exactly how to start doing that.
Go land that top quality man, beautiful.
You've got this!
xx Jamie
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